Interweb Finds: Killer confidence, the music of trees & more

What was your favorite thing you did this week?

Mine was that I followed my own advice from my blog post earlier this week and removed myself from the computer. After meeting two of my good friends from school for an early brunch at KTCHN DTLA yesterday (so good), I realized it was absolutely gorgeous outside and that it would be sinful not to take advantage of the weather. So I changed into a pretty dress, and John and I went for a long walk along Sunset Boulevard, window shopping along the way. By the time we got home, my feet were pretty sore and I didn’t even mind. It was just what I needed.

Here are my latest favorite interweb finds:

I wrote a guest post for the lovely and talented Latrina at Of Trees and Hues about moving to California and thriving while taking big leaps.

More advice on writing an ebook that sells.

The Scar Project by photographer David Jay is one of the most moving projects I’ve come across in a long time. These (NSFW) photos depict young women who have battled breast cancer and bravely bare their scars to the camera. There’s such a range of emotions in each of these women’s faces, and I was brought to tears more than once.

Geeky and genius. A recreation of the Jurassic Park computer system.

If trees could sing, what would they sound like? This awesome video shows how tree rings were interpreted as musical notes and then played on a record player.

Whether you’re struggling with your self-image, feeling a little helpless or just having a rough week, Claire’s free guide to killer confidence is a thoughtful, helpful and loving resource to get back on track.

I love this idea: micro cottages for the homeless.

That’s all for today! What are you looking forward to in the next week? Me—spring break is right around the corner.

Interweb Finds: Spilling your secrets, addiction to stress & more

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What a much-needed weekend this was. Yours, too?

I spent most of the week running all over town getting interviews for stories, paying too much for parking, and paying even more for a parking ticket. (Ugh.) Needless to say, I was happy when Friday rolled around and I didn’t have anywhere to be. Yesterday morning, a tiny earthquake (3.0 on the Richter scale) scared me awake. I also went up the street to check out the farmers market — which I’ll blog about on Tuesday! — and met up with a blogger friend, which I will also blog about soon! As I type this, “California Dreamin'” aptly plays on Pandora. It’s a beautiful day, and our first rose (above) is in bloom!

In celebration of the end of a glorious weekend, here are a few of this week’s best interweb finds:

Even if you typically scroll past your friends’ baby photos on Facebook, you’ll love these pictures a dad took of his daughter in various costumes — like a monk and a butcher.

Ever wish you could share secrets on social media anonymously, without repercussion? Enter the addictive Secret app.

I love how Latrina turned a bad experience (her recent car accident) into a revelation and change in lifestyle.

Are you addicted to stress? Reading this sounded a little too familiar to me:

“For some of us, the exhilaration we feel when pushing against a deadline is similar to the rush an addict gets when they shoot up. ‘Stress is a drug,’ says Hanna. By activating the dopamine reward center in the brain that feeds us feel-good endorphins, stress can temporarily boost performance, explaining why some of us appear to get so much done when under the gun.”

I’m obsessed with Kylie’s gorgeous photos. These wintry shots from Idaho make this Los Angeles lover crave cold weather… just a little bit.

How goal-setting can inhibit our happiness:

“What motivates our investment in goals and planning for the future, much of the time, isn’t any sober recognition of the virtues of preparation and looking ahead. Rather, it’s something much more emotional: how deeply uncomfortable we are made by feelings of uncertainty. Faced with the anxiety of not knowing what the future holds, we invest ever more fiercely in our preferred vision of that future — not because it will help us achieve it, but because it helps rid us of feelings of uncertainty in the present.”

Could you live in a 196-square-foot cabin in Tahoe? This couple does. And they built it themselves.

That’s all for this week’s roundup. I’ve got a lot of writing and video editing to do today—and lots to look forward to this week. What’s going on with you?

 

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Interweb Finds: Curing the computer hunch, mouthwatering recipes & more

 

How was everyone’s weekend? Did it go by as fast as mine did?

Friday night, I had the chance to meet two blogger friends in real life, both of whom have guest blogged for me in the past. Ashley of Your Super Awesome Life and Ashley of Ashley Riordan were in town, so we met up at the Black Cat here in Silver Lake, just down the street from me. They were super sweet, smart and fun. Yesterday, John and I took advantage of the free museum day to check out the LACMA… and so did everyone else in the city, apparently! All that looking at art and dodging strangers with cameras made us hungry, so we checked out The Golden State and got ourselves some delicious burgers with applewood bacon and fresh buttery buns, jalapeño cabbage slaw, and french fries with curry ketchup. (Yeah. It was awesome.)

Unfortunately, I also woke up to the news that there had been a shooting at the mall in my hometown, Columbia, Maryland. Three people including the shooter were killed. This is not the kind of thing you’d expect to happen in Columbia. The town is about as bland, suburban and—usually—safe as it could be. I worked in that mall for about three years back in high school. The two people killed were close to my age—people I could’ve gone to school with. One was a mother. The whole thing is just sad. I was almost ever-so-slightly desensitized to these senseless shootings—until one happened where I’m from. I’m sending my thoughts back home.

Here’s what you came for—the interweb finds of the week:

If you’re like me and spend most of your waking hours in front of a computer, you might want to try this exercise. Very effective at curing the feeling that you’re becoming a hunchback.

I’m obsessed with these magical photos taken on one family’s farm. This is exactly what you imagine when you fantasize about growing up surrounded by animals and nature.

Pictures of cats sneezing. Nothing else needs to be said here.

Why the grammar police are bad writers. (I’m a grammar fanatic—but I agree that the practice of smugly correcting people’s grammar online is obnoxious.)

You ready for four amazing new recipes to try? Quinoa stuffed bell peppers. Indian chickpeas and kale with rice. Skillet lasagna. Quinoa cauliflower bowl with almond sriracha sauce. You’re welcome.

I’m thinking Tallulah Bankhead—a wild and witty actress from the flapper era—will be my next girl crush after I read this book:

“Tallulah found herself hailed as one of the wits of Manhattan, and she worked hard to make sure the reputation stuck. In private, she could still be assailed by childish terrors and weep in her dressing room from stage fright, but in public she could launch herself into a room with a stream of slick, rude and seemingly spontaneous one-liners: ‘I’m as pure as the driven slush,’ she would remark, tossing back her hair whilst taking a calculated drag on her cigarette. ‘I don’t give a fuck what people say about me so long as they say something.’”

This gothic industrial loft isn’t really my style. And yet I’m drawn to so many aspects of it—like the spiral staircase, the dark hardwood, the long bookshelves and the tall, arched windows. Absolutely gorgeous.

And that’s all from me today. I’ll have some fun photos taken around Los Angeles to share later this week. Have a good start to yours!

 

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Interweb Finds: Idea overwhelm, the world’s scariest trail & more

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Hey y’all. I’ve been away from this space for a while, so I’m popping in briefly today to get back on track with my usual regular features. On Tuesday, I’ll explain why I’ve been gone so long and what’s in store for this here blog. (Only good things, I promise.) I’ve also got a fantastic guest post on ebook writing, plus an interview with a rising music star in the coming week or so. Lots to look forward to, so keep an eye out!

I’ve saved up a bunch of interweb finds for you this week. Here’s some of the best of the web:

Gawker published a fantastic profile of a tragic, troubled teen who didn’t shoot up his school. But—possibly—only because someone took his “joke” seriously.

I love how Nicole, who has lived all over the place, defines “home” in a recent blog post. As someone who stayed in the same state for the first 23 years of her life (but had two separate homes growing up), I found it fascinating.

Let’s all collectively fear for our society, hmm? One writer created the worst dating profile ever—and got a flood of messages:

“After reading 500 messages from men who apparently had just slapped their semi-erect penis on their keyboard a few times and pressed ‘send,’ my already flimsy grasp on reality was loosening. Preparing response strategies and putting words into a coherent order wasn’t an option for me anymore, so I decided to turn that into its own strategy. I’d tried mean-crazy, I’d tried life-destroying-crazy; I might as well try crazy-crazy.”

Oh, how all too well I can relate to Erika’s post on idea overwhelm.

The world’s scariest trail leads somewhere a bit… unexpected. If you have a serious fear of heights, you might not even be able to look at these photos without hyperventilating.

For anyone (especially someone living in SoCal) who craves a little rain every now and then.

A lesser-known dementia steals people’s personalities in the prime of their lives. Both fascinating and sad.

You mean BuzzFeed also publishes respectable journalism?! A great read about a city in decay: “Why I bought a house in Detroit for $500.”

Yolanda Dominguez’s “Poses” pokes fun at the absurdity of high fashion.

 

And that is all from me today. A special shout-out to my mom back home on the other side of the country—she’s turning 50 today! See you guys on Tuesday. Can’t wait to catch up.

Interweb Finds: Wet dogs, rethinking holiday “survival” & more

As I type this, I sit wrapped in a blanket, trying to ignore the smell of burnt dust from the ancient wall furnace vents, wondering if it will set off the smoke detector again. Guys, it’s freezing in L.A. Okay, not freezing… but cold. And wet. Last night’s weather felt downright East Coast-y, and it’s just weird. It’s not right.

When I wasn’t bemoaning sub-60 degree weather, I spent this weekend scrambling for new story ideas, attending a party where I was one of four straight people, and celebrating the end of the semester’s classes.

And now, for this week’s interweb finds:

A photo series of wet dogs. I DIE.

As Christmas draws closer, I’m starting to stress about my first trip home since moving to L.A. So I LOVE Rachel’s post about rethinking “surviving” the holidays:

If you tell yourself that Thanksgiving is going to be stressful because the whole family will be there with Aunt Martha forcing green bean casserole on everyone while dad tells awkward jokes, then yes, it will be stressful and those things will grate on you, and you may in fact cause a stressful environment by bringing your negative energy to the table.
 
But what happens when you go in with a positive mindset?

From the mundane to the profound moments—a list of the first times people felt like an adult. (I can relate to so many of these.)

Such a dreamy Silver Lake house tour. I want to be friends with the renter based on style (and dog) alone.

This made me laugh out loud. A kid’s insane Christmas wish list, hilariously annotated by dad:

“‘A little thing that can turn into anything at anytime.’ The fuck is this? What am I, Galactus? Do you understand the catastrophic universal implications of possessing a shape-shifting, time-traveling device?

These amazing shadow sculptures are for real.

Watch how a leopard reacts when she finds out her prey has a newborn. Again, I DIE.

 

This week is it for me—the home stretch. Lots of work to be done before I can officially declare this first semester of grad school a successful one. Here’s hoping I end up with a great story to tell.

How about you? What do you have going on this week?